Do I Work Too Much?

Do I Work Too Much?

Do I Work Too Much? In today's society, usually both partners have to work. The days where the mother can stay at home are gone and along with it goes the joy of raising kids. Day cares and babysitters now have the responsibility of instilling values instead of the parents. Relationships tend to get stretched when both partners have the stress of demanding careers. The feeling of being alone or not being important to your partner will cause problems on one side or on both sides. Is the only answer to quit your job? There are so many people relying on you that it's just easier to drown yourself in work. It is always "acceptable" to be working. No one questions your parenting ability, your faithfulness or getting the job done, but you feel that you are missing a lot from this life. Scheduling Versus Boundaries There's an old saying that "if Mama ain't happy then no one is happy" meaning if you...
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Will Aging Affect My Marriage?

Will Aging Affect My Marriage?

Will Aging Affect My Marriage? You get married when you're young and one day you look in the mirror and there it is.... your first aging facial line. Well it's just one line so just ignore it but then more lines appear and then the crows feet around your eyes! There is no ignoring it now! So you buy all the creams and gels you can find then, you ask all your friends what they use then, nothing works! Try the new Skinception for all the women who have used everything! ---> Aging Affects On Marriage Now you start to question how your spouse will handle you getting older. Your spouse expects you to get old and expect themselves to get old. Women will fight it every step of the way. While men usually just accept what comes. Women do not like their facial features to change, which makes them question their ability to be what their husbands want them to be. If men do not check out...
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How To Forgive Your Partner

How To Forgive Your Partner

How To Forgive Your Partner Forgiveness begins with you. Forgiveness does not come easy when you are angry or hurt. The more you try to forgive them, the more your emotions will be affected. In all religions and cultures, you are required to forgive but in reality, it is your choice. Is it your place to make them feel better about what they did? Is it your place to inform them of what you expect in order for them to be forgiven? When do we stop letting them take advantage or is it that they do not understand what is hurting us? Let's explore: Forgiveness Is Your Choice You cannot control other people but you can stop re-living what they have done to you. Communication with explanations as to what the root cause of this pain will begin the healing process. It is better to learn the truth about yourself although it may hurt at the time. Weigh the pro's and con's of allowing...
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Can This Stop You From Cheating?

Can This Stop You From Cheating? Thoughts about cheating? He has been staring at you all night although he sees you with your man. You love the attention and how he flirts with you with his sexy eyes. So you look away hoping he will stop, but take another glance to see him still looking at you. He gets up from his chair and starts walking your way. You stand frozen, what do you do at this point? He passes by so close to you that you can smell his cologne and slips you a piece of paper and continues right out the door. You noticed he was wearing a ring too but the note has his number on it. Now what do you do? What King of Marriage Do You Have? If you are in a happy, sexually satisfying marriage, there is nothing more to do except throw the number away and take it as a compliment. Okay, maybe brag to a...
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Will These Fantasies Help Your Sex Life?

Will These Fantasies Help Your Sex Life?

Being able to express your fantasies to your partner can only improve your sex life! Having a discussion about your deepest inner thoughts will take your relationship to the next level. Open yourself to your partners desires as well. It will not help much if you want them to powder your bum and call you baby but you are not willing to throw on a eye patch and use some swear words. Judgement Almost everyone has something they are just dying to try but too afraid to ask for it or even bring it up in the conversation. Judgement by the person you love can be hard to take. Begin by asking for their opinion on things and slowly work what you are looking to do into the conversation. Knowing you can say anything to your partner without judgement can make you more bold and adventurous, not just in the bedroom, but in your general life together. This is where trust becomes...
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Can Kids Coming Between My Marriage?

Can Kids Coming Between My Marriage?

Adjusting To The Newborn The excitement of a new baby over takes the marriage. You have waited for nine months to see your newborn and it's finally here! Everyone has helped you get ready. You have all the essentials and things you will never use! Then reality sets in: we both have to work, who gets up with the baby at 2am or 4am? Why is she too tired for sex nowadays? He must not think I'm attractive anymore, he hasn't touched me in weeks! Is there another woman? Is there another man? We can't even watch our favorite show together, all she does is sleep! Kids are great.... I Miss Sleep! Communication is the only way to adjust to a new person in your marriage. You will have to take turns feeding the baby. It is why the breast pump was invented. Willow Breast Pump has great mobile breast pumps and other supplies that might be covered by your insurance. You will need...
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